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Striking a Balance

Writer's picture: Mary Rogers KirbyMary Rogers Kirby

Finding a balance between work and personal life can be a real challenge. The demands of our jobs can leave us feeling drained and overwhelmed.Here are some practical tips that can help you reclaim your time and energy.

  • Give Yourself a Break

We’re often our harshest critics, pushing ourselves to meet impossible standards. However, this relentless drive can lead to burnout. It's crucial to recognize that perfection is unattainable and that it’s okay to take a step back. It’s okay to simply do the best you can.

  • Take Breaks Throughout the Day

We’ve all heard the phrase “work smarter, not harder,” and one of the smartest things you can do is to take regular breaks throughout your workday. Continuous work without rest can decrease productivity and lead to exhaustion. Short, frequent breaks can refresh your mind, improve focus, and prevent burnout. A quick walk, a few minutes of stretching, or even a short meditation session can make a world of difference. By scheduling regular breaks, you’ll find that you’re more productive and less stressed.

  • Learn to Say No

One of the biggest challenges in maintaining a work-life balance is the inability to say no. We often take on too much, whether it’s additional work assignments, social obligations, or favors for friends. While it’s great to be helpful, overcommitting can lead to stress and a lack of personal time. Learning to say no is essential for protecting your well-being. Politely decline tasks or requests that will overburden you and are not your responsibility or in job description. Prioritize what’s most important. Saying no isn’t selfish; it’s a necessary step in managing your time and energy.

  • Delegate Tasks

You don’t have to do everything yourself. At work, identify tasks that others can handle and trust your team to take them on. Ensure that you communicate your expectations clearly. Encourage open communication, allowing them to ask questions or seek clarification as needed.


Part of a work/life balance is what you do with your personal life outside of work. Here are some tips to take care of your time outside of work.

  • Set good boundaries

Establish these boundaries early on. Don’t create an expectation that you are always “on.” it’s easy to feel like you need to be available 24/7. Stop responding to emails or taking phone calls outside of designated work hours. You don’t want to set the precedent that you are always available.Work-related social events can be a great way to build relationships and network, but they can also eat into your personal time if not managed carefully. It’s important to be selective about which social engagements you attend. 

  • Disconnect from Technology

In our digital age, it’s easy to get caught up in a constant cycle of checking emails, social media, and messages. To achieve a balanced personal life, it’s important to disconnect from technology regularly. Set aside time each day to unplug and engage in activities that don’t involve screens. This could be reading a book, taking a walk, or spending quality time with loved ones. Disconnecting helps you to be more present in the moment and reduces the mental clutter that technology often brings.

  • Establish a Routine that Includes "Me Time"

Routines are not just for work—they can also help you carve out time for yourself. Schedule regular "me time" into your day, just as you would for any important task. This could be a morning walk, an evening bath, or time set aside for a hobby. By including personal time in your routine, you make sure it becomes a priority rather than an afterthought. Sticking to this routine helps you maintain a sense of balance and ensures that you’re not neglecting your own needs.

  • Cultivate Social Connections

A fulfilling personal life includes strong social connections. Make time to nurture relationships with friends, family, and loved ones. Whether it’s planning regular meetups, chatting over the phone, or organizing a fun activity together, these connections provide emotional support and enhance your sense of belonging. 

Achieving a balanced personal life requires intentional effort and a commitment to prioritizing your well-being. By setting boundaries, disconnecting from technology, establishing routines, and nurturing social connections, you can cultivate a more fulfilling and balanced life. Remember, your personal life is just as important as your professional one, and taking steps to enrich it will lead to greater overall happiness and fulfillment.


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